Dear clients & friends of Gentle Delivery,

As we approach the end of 2024, I’m grateful for the chance to reflect over the opportunities that presented themselves throughout this past year. I count it a privilege to work with so many sweet families, and to be present during such a special life event as when a new life enters the world.

2024 began bright and early with the arrival of a baby girl on January 1st, who decided to come fast enough to beat my arrival by a few minutes! Interestingly, my last baby due in 2024 arrived the same way on Christmas Eve, so I guess fast births were the theme of this year. It’s fun to consider the stats: most of the families I worked with this year were new to Gentle Delivery, and many were having their first homebirth. About half of the babies were born in water,  most came close to or after their due dates (a few made us wait an EXTRA long time), and the majority weighed around 7#14oz. The largest was 9#3oz, and the smallest was 6#14oz: it’s so interesting what variety there is in the realm of “normal”. There were a few “first experiences” this year, as well: a flat tire on the way to a birth (yes, I drove on it and yes, I made it to the birth!) and parking tickets at 6am. There’s never a dull moment when doing birthwork!

I’m always grateful for the assistants who help me out at any time day or night, and there were many different ladies fulfilling this role this year. Many of you met Natasha, a midwifery student from VA who spent several months this winter helping me. She is still in midwifery school, and hopes to be finished before too much longer! Lanna, Maria, Lynelle and Janine have also pitched in depending on schedules, and these women do so much to make your experience that much better. I couldn’t do what I do without their help, and appreciate them sacrificing their time & plans when I need help. 

Having a nursing baby who needed to be with me added another need for flexibility during the early months of the year, and I was so grateful for the help my oldest daughter Yoanna provided as she cheerfully got up any time day or night to come along and babysit. While I’m happy to be past the stage of needing to have Shekinah with me, Yoanna is eagerly looking forward to the day when she can graduate from babysitter to birth assistant, and that can’t come soon enough for her!

Our family’s move to Philipsburg was another big change. While that has shifted the radius that I’m able to serve, it’s also opened some new doors in an area that doesn’t have as many midwifery options. The midwifery office suite that we were able to finish out has made appointments and midwifery work SO much more sustainable for our family life, which has also been a tremendous blessing. 

As my children grow and family life shifts into new stages once again, we find ourselves taking time to reevaluate our schedule and commitments as I move forward with midwifery responsibilities. I love the opportunity to serve families in this way, yet the constant demand and on-call schedule does make things challenging at times. My dream would be to be able to team with another midwife someday, thus being able to provide home birth options while at the same time having the opportunity to take off when needed for family time and other commitments. At this time, keeping midwifery sustainable for our family means limiting service radius at times, and taking off various months when we have other plans pending. It can be very hard to say no to former clients, but I’m thankful to have a number of other options that I can pass on when this happens. I couldn’t do midwifery without my family’s support, yet the only way to keep that support is to keep them priority whenever I can! 

In closing, please note that there is a new office and mailing address for Gentle Delivery (if you need it, please email or message me and I’ll happily send it your way!). I would LOVE to get your family pictures & updates, and want to make sure they get to my new location! I’m hoping to get back into a schedule of doing Mommy Meetups again in 2025, so email me if you want to be on the list for those updates! gentlemidwife@gmail.com

Blessings to each one of you in 2025! ~Kelsey Martin/Gentle Delivery Midwifery